I am a bit of a geeky girl who is trying to get into shape to be more like the women I grew up with as rolemodels. I want to be able to save myself from that tower or slay my own dragon
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I have gone from tiny horse to a wind up door to a bloody ballerina. Haha. This is a fun show.

4 hours ago | J | 0 notes
you dont tag trigger warnings?

Anonymous

uoa:

i always get shit when i talk about this but the reason i dont tag tw is bc

a) the term ‘trigger’ is meant to refer 2 those with PTSD those w severe anxiety and/or survivors of various forms of abuse it indicates an extreme reaction 2 certain stimulus like a panic attack/flashback/blackout caused by ur brain being unable to handle the resurgence of something horrific that happened to u 

b) with that being said, i dont post triggering content. i havent talked about serious triggering shit on this blog for a long time in fact i think the last time i tagged smth was when i reblogged this youtube video about domestic abuse probs like 6 months ago nowadays i just reblog pretty pictures and make fun of anons 

b) i get a thousand messages everyday from ppl suggesting i should tag shit like ‘spiders, ‘blood’, ‘feet’, ‘ghosts’, etc and it seriously pisses me off that u guys really believe ‘triggering’ equals ‘it makes me uncomfortable’ im not here to make tumblr a better place for u im not even getting paid man it’s ur responsibility to take care of yourself when it comes to these random ass ‘triggers’ if u cant see a gif of a ghost on ur dash you shouldn’t be online at all

d) in fact, ive come to the conclusion that demanding one of these lame ass trigger warnings it’s just a way 2 identify yourself as even more aware even more solicitous than the person who failed to ~adequately~ provide such a ridiculous warning. when i see ppl tagging ‘tw: spiders’ i cant help but think they are not demonstrating a sensitivity towards a topic but rather they just wanna be ‘seen’ doing so 2 demand that others ‘ought’ to do the same to validate one’s politics. this whole ’trigger’ business is less about protecting ppl from potentially re-traumatizing events and more 2 do with flagging up your right-on credentials even if it means silencing those who have actually gone through actual traumatizing events.

7 hours ago | J | 26,529 notes

5000letters:

I find it really strange that when you’re in a long distance friendship or relationship all you want to do is see that person and being around them is the biggest most wonderful deal but there are people who interact with them
all the time, on the street and in the classroom and in the shops and it always makes me jealous because you want to be with this person so much and for everyone else they’re nothing special but for you they’re everything special

8 hours ago | J | 18,345 notes
So i didnt get to post this yesterday because my phone died at fest and we had no power when we got home. Anyways, rogue queen got her first loyal rusher at #mnrenfest Just a couple of touch ups to the costume and my fem #rostothepiper #cosplay should be ready. #tamorapierce

So i didnt get to post this yesterday because my phone died at fest and we had no power when we got home. Anyways, rogue queen got her first loyal rusher at #mnrenfest Just a couple of touch ups to the costume and my fem #rostothepiper #cosplay should be ready. #tamorapierce

8 hours ago | J | 2 notes
Vil ten at #mnrenfest

Vil ten at #mnrenfest

1 day ago | J | 1 note
First drink at #mnrenfest is cherry mead. So far so good.

First drink at #mnrenfest is cherry mead. So far so good.

1 day ago | J | 0 notes
Renfest!!!!

Renfest!!!!

1 day ago | J | 0 notes
Who are some people that you know offline that you're friendly with but don't like that you've known for a while?

Anonymous

It’s not so much that I don’t like them as it is that we no longer really talk/interact and so I am only friendly when we run into each other and don’t really feel like we are friends….*shrugs*

1 day ago | J | 0 notes

Lets play 20 questions, the first 20 asks I get send I will answer, no matter how personal, creepy or sexual

1 day ago | J | 16,856 notes
Yes, you should eat. You should always eat. No more of this sitting around for an hour with your cup of coffee trying to decide. You should always eat. There is never a time when skipping a meal is the right answer. Go eat, because you need to. Go eat, because you have a life to live.
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Note to self (via 50shadesofrecovery)

I needed this so bad today thank you

(via pbisbetterthaned)

1 day ago | J | 18,140 notes